About 2,5 years ago 2 friends (Thomas van Gaal en Bijan Lotfi) and me started Trigger Boys. Before that, for more than 5 years I had worked on a lot of youth projects and focussed more or less on activating and communicating with ‘hard-to-reach’ youth groups… like I (once) was myself as well. Voluntarily, e.g. with founding Young Vision, as well as professionally later on. My personal field of interest became: youth, diversity and social media.
Steve Jobs tells his great story about ‘connecting the dots’ and how you can only do that while backtracking. Well, when I do that I can see that whole my life I’ve been kind of an outsider who likes to trigger.
The last 2 years or so I’ve been involved with The Future Firm. I’ve worked with facilitating teams on at least 15 leadership journeys on the highest level, sometimes with partners like the Oxford Leadership Academy. Which was amazing and I’ve learned a lot. Gijs Pothof has been an awesome mentor (and friend)!
Consciously working on leadership skills in combination with triggering has been a trip! Being aware of yourself as being the first step towards improvement, doesn’t always make it easy. Asking the difficult questions in brainstorms while not relying on hierarchy, sharing an opinion based upon action instead of reaction, creating the win-win story: it is difficult.
I’m taking some risks here and there with working on my skills. I’m loving the challenge of trying to grow, although the bumps in the road can be painful. I’m trying to commit to following my heart, and sometimes that’s tough. I’m pretty sure that DIY’ing and staying foolish & hungry will get me through.
Kids usually got all the inspiration you need. Today I did a trigger session with the innovators of the Dutch Tax Agency. At the end, Juno – the 11 year old daughter of Sandra – joined us. She was listening in and almost naturally put in some real ‘trigger girl’ stuff. Funny, sharp and I loved it. She inspired me, because her ‘interventions’ were pure and honest; true leadership actually. And when we asked, she told us she can be hired as ‘trigger girl’: €100,- an hour. Wow!!